10:58pm January 11th 2019
okay im just gonna copy paste the thing i posted on facebook.
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DONT RAISE YOUR FUCKING KIDS TELLING THEM TO "JUST IGNORE" THERE YOUNGER SIBLING WHEN THERE LITTLE SIBLING IS TRYING TO PROVOKE THEM BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO PARENT!!!
I grew up with my little brother annoying the shit out of me all the time. And he would get away with it. You know what i wouldnt get away with? Retaliating when he had finally pushed the last button.
NEVER teach your kids to "just ignore" harassment till it goes away CAUSE IT WONT GO AWAY!!!!! Then what there gonna do is grow up being taught not to stick up for themselves cause they'll be punished for it even though they were provoked and they arent going to go to authorities cause they arent gonna do anything.
NO ONE SHOULD JUST ACCEPT HARASSMENT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES! LGBT people shouldnt "just expect" backlash. POC shouldnt "just ignore" racism. Women shouldnt "not be surprised" when they are assaulted by men. Kids shouldnt "just ignore" there siblings so you dont have to do your job as there parent to teach them that treating other people wrongly isnt okay to do. FUCKING HELL ITS NOT A HARD CONCEPT TO GRASP FUCK THAT WAY OF THINKING!!!!!!!
I grew up with my little brother annoying the shit out of me all the time. And he would get away with it. You know what i wouldnt get away with? Retaliating when he had finally pushed the last button.
NEVER teach your kids to "just ignore" harassment till it goes away CAUSE IT WONT GO AWAY!!!!! Then what there gonna do is grow up being taught not to stick up for themselves cause they'll be punished for it even though they were provoked and they arent going to go to authorities cause they arent gonna do anything.
NO ONE SHOULD JUST ACCEPT HARASSMENT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES! LGBT people shouldnt "just expect" backlash. POC shouldnt "just ignore" racism. Women shouldnt "not be surprised" when they are assaulted by men. Kids shouldnt "just ignore" there siblings so you dont have to do your job as there parent to teach them that treating other people wrongly isnt okay to do. FUCKING HELL ITS NOT A HARD CONCEPT TO GRASP FUCK THAT WAY OF THINKING!!!!!!!
this may sound it but this is in no way a call out to my parents. im sure its just how they were brought up or w/e but its a very harmful way to parent your children and i remember it being so emotionally taxing and hard. today i fucking hate hearing people say that people should expect, accept, or ignore harassment and then see those people turn around and act like they arent associated with the people who DO harass and assault others cause "they wouldnt do it". if you blame the victim. youre a big part of the issue.
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I dont hate my parents. but i dont like the way they raised me.
from shit like taking away things like Bubu, a thing that was an emotional support item to telling me to just ignore my brother trying to provoke me so i would get in trouble. i dont think my parents were good parents. i think they have a lot to do with how my mental health is today.
from shit like taking away things like Bubu, a thing that was an emotional support item to telling me to just ignore my brother trying to provoke me so i would get in trouble. i dont think my parents were good parents. i think they have a lot to do with how my mental health is today.
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